Bad Fit in Organization
Hello everyone! I started a new job about 7 months ago, and I love everything about the job except for the people. I work for a small company, and everyone is really "clicky", including all of management which is composed of all males. I'm supposed to be a part of management, however, I recently found out that all of management, except for myself and my manager (CFO) go to lunch or for dinner after work. My manager is invited but I'm never invited. While my manager is a part of the Executive Management team, other members of management who are on the same level as myself, are invited to lunch and/or dinner. I'm also the "solo" person in the HR department, and hence don't really have anyone else except for management to go to lunch with.
We are moving into a new building, and all of the managers have been invited on a tour by the President of the Company except for me. When I asked about seeing the new building, I was told that we might plan a tour for all employees to see it before we move in. Mabye this sounds really "petty" but to me it's a little more. When I voiced my concern to my manager, he pretty much shrugged it off.
I guess I'm used to a different type of work "culture" where management is management, and I don't think this place is a good fit for me. While I love my job, I also think its important for a work place to be a good fit. Since I've only been with the company for 7months, I don't want to seem like a job hopper, and if I apply for another position, I wonder how other companies will view my short tenure. I'm really struggling with the decision to try and stick it out or move on but I'm really miserable. Any advice?