Please Help!

We have a female employee who is being tracked for termination. By this, I mean her job performance has been such that we will have to replace her. Her job in jeopardy warning will be given late today or tomorrow. The problem is: She has recently displayed unusual behavior when she is verbally warned by her supervisor. He will ask her a question, such as "Do you understand the instructions that were given to you during your training yesterday?" She will roll her eyes, stare at the ceiling, stare at the wall and not answer. He timed her once at 3 minutes of staring at the wall with no response. What tips do you have for dealing with someone who is acting spaced out. I say "acting" because she is a very intelligent young woman and I don't trust her motives. She has manipulated many people many ways, and I think this is one more case. (She also was involved in a locally high-profile murder case as the mistress of a man who murdered his wife before she came to us. She managed to not only get out of testifying, but also disappeared when subpoenaed.) Please give me some insight! Thanks very much.
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"Mary, I just asked you if you understood yesterday's instructions".
"Mary, do you understand that I have asked you a question?"
"If you do not understand my question, tell me so; If you do not answer my question, your employment is terminated effective immediately."
Depending on whether or not she does actually become engaged in the conversation, I would also tell her that "We must communicate with our employees and they must openly communicate with us. If we cannot do that, you will not remain employed."
I don't see any relevance between her refusal to be engaged in conversation and her role in the murder mystery.
I like Don's direct approach, which forces acknowledgement of the question(s), the process, and the consequences. It's a good approach if there is not some issue such as the one described above.
Sorry, that's about all I can dredge up for now, other than the scary phrase "...the employer knew or should have known..."
To view the article, log in on the home page, and search the newsletter archives. I found it by searching for "FMLA" and including the words "change behavior." Be sure to narrow your search to "Nevada" for "2003," and a link to the article should pop right up. Let me know if it doesn't. By the way, neither situation (in Illinois or Maryland) involved employees' rolling their eyes! One, however, was having trouble keeping his eyes open. tk
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